We are a couple just learning and are wanting to explore our naughty sides Our relationship is happy and loving and if the situation evolves and we feel comfortable ( we need to feel comfortable ) we are happy to try playing and explore with others . He is straight and more recently she has gone beyond bicurious and liked it a lot . We both work hard and then both want relaxation time -- that can be with us just as couple and with others. We would always want to be discreet and would want and expect that back too.